No recipes, no garden tips -- not today.  Today it's about loving them anyway!  Loving the people who will always talk about you, especially when they envy you and the life you live.  Let them .... you affected their lives, they didn't affect yours, and that's perfectly alright -- just sit back and think to yourself -- Damn, I've got myself a fan club!  We all have special gifts and talents that our Good Lord gave us to share and I think when we start living up to our potential and start sharing those special gifts and talents, it scares some.  Scary to some because they're afraid they're not living up to their potential!  But just because they're afraid, don't let it stop you from being all you can and were meant to be.  So ...... I say...... just keep giving 'em something to talk about and to coin Nike's phrase -- Just Do It!  Live it, breath it, do it -- You'll keep building that Fan Club!